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Is monogamy suddenly like Santa Claus? I'm supposed to believe in a mythical entity called monogamy now? Do I burn effigies of divorce lawyers while making offerings to relationship gurus like Dr. Phil? Actually, burning stuff is always kind of fun...
*cough*
I suppose if you mean do I believe couples can have a sucessful monogamous relationship, then yes, yes I do believe monogamy is possible. I mean, considering my current relationship is monogamous I should hope I think it's possible for us to make it work. If I didn't, I'd be pretty stupid trying to force myself into something that wouldn't work for me. Been there, done that, got the therapy bills to prove it.
I do believe open relationships/polyamory can work as well. I may not want it for myself anymore, but I won't begrudge other couples from venturing down that path. I've seen some pretty happy monogamous relationships and some pretty happy polyamorous relationships. I've also seen some pretty miserable relationships on both ends of the spectrum.
It just all boils down to what's right for an individual couple. I really don't believe there are any One Size Fits All relationship types.