Writer's Block: Deal or No Deal
Mar. 5th, 2009 10:11 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
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Hmm, well I can't really think of any that aren't a big "duh."
The biggest one is honesty, particularly about feelings. Don't tell me you love me if you really don't, not even if you think it's to spare my feelings. I've had it happen and it hurt worse to find out it was a lie than if I had been told from the outset my feelings weren't returned.
Respect for who I am. I don't want to be changed to suit someone. I want to be me and loved as I am rather than who I could be.
On the sillier side of things, I don't think I could date someone who didn't get Monty Python, gaming, or other geeky references. It'd cut down on the amount of jokes I could make, and also wouldn't leave a whole lot in the way of subject matter to discuss.
All that being said, I'm rather lucky in this area at the moment. ;)
Hmm, well I can't really think of any that aren't a big "duh."
The biggest one is honesty, particularly about feelings. Don't tell me you love me if you really don't, not even if you think it's to spare my feelings. I've had it happen and it hurt worse to find out it was a lie than if I had been told from the outset my feelings weren't returned.
Respect for who I am. I don't want to be changed to suit someone. I want to be me and loved as I am rather than who I could be.
On the sillier side of things, I don't think I could date someone who didn't get Monty Python, gaming, or other geeky references. It'd cut down on the amount of jokes I could make, and also wouldn't leave a whole lot in the way of subject matter to discuss.
All that being said, I'm rather lucky in this area at the moment. ;)